Adult Dating, as the name itself suggests, it involves two adults dating each other. And when two adults are dating each other, they have to be matured enough to handle the entire relationship sensitively leading to something fruitful and meaningful in their life. But at times even adults are bound to behave childishly, insensitively or simply rudely. If you find yourself in such a puddle while dating a guy on an adult dating app, don’t think twice before calling out the man.
We have come up with some situations where calling out a man is completely justifiable, even when the man is hell bound to prove you crazy or insane. You need not need to feel guilty about it as it is your life and reigns of your life should always be in your hands.
If he is not responding to your texts or calls like a decent human being!
It is something very funny with guys that when you confront them for not responding to your texts or calls or taking forever to reply to your message, they think you are crazy. On top of it they start avoiding you more because of this crazy behavior without understanding that if they would have responded to your message like a decent human being on the first place, this situation would have been completely preventable. So if you have come across such a guy on any of the adult apps, don’t feel guilty in screwing him.
When a third person also has some space in the picture!
On internet websites with offers like adult dating for free has encouraged many men to date multiple people. If you are dating a person thinking everything between your two is going fine with a decent future and suddenly person drops the bomb of dating someone else also, it’s time to call out the man. You might be getting sincere about this entire dating thing, dreaming of a future with the person. He doesn’t have any right to pull the rug beneath your feet without any warning to you. You have complete right to get pissed off and call it quits.
When he is breaking promises constantly!
Ok! You people have met on an adult dating app but when you have reached the stage of making promises to each other, this clearly shows both of you have sincere intentions of taking the relationship forward. Making a promise regarding anything means that thing is important for both of you. If the person is breaking his promise again and again and disappointing you, you have full right to go crazy, confront him and call out on him. A man who cannot keep his promises can’t be trusted for long-time commitment.
Most of the time he is flaking out on plans for no good reason!
If you are dating a guy and he is flaking out the plans made without any excuse or with terrible excuses then you have full right to call out the man. In the adult, dating plans are made with mutual consent and a person has no right to be insensitive enough to flake out the plan with silly reasons. In any relationship, respect is as important as love, affection, and care. And this attitude of the man clearly shows he has no respect for your feelings, expectations, and for the fact that you are taking out time to make the plan work with him.
When he says nasty or cruel things to you or about people associated with you!
Being in love or being in a relationship never means you bear with all the crap that comes on your way. If the person is being crappy, saying nasty or cruel things about you or about people whom you love then you have full right to get angry and call out the man. Again, a man who cannot give you respect, cannot give you true love. He may call you crazy for your act of break up but it is only because of the fact that he does not have the decency to apologize to you. So just ignore and move on in your life to someone who respects you and your life.
When he cannot take your no for his whiny advances for sex!
Some men have a high and stubborn male ego and they cannot take your no for sexual advances. You may have declined his advances because you are tired, you are not feeling well, you are not comfortable or you feel it is too early. No matter what reason it is, no always means a no and you should not feel guilty about it. If the man is not able to handle you no with maturity, it is his problem and not yours. You have full right to call out the man.